Stop Living in the Future: 4 Ways to Reclaim the Present

Reading Time: 4 minutesHave you ever caught yourself living more in the future than in the present? Most of us do. We tell ourselves, “When X happens, then I’ll be happy.” I’m guilty of it too. My wife and I have a trip planned soon—a few days in a cabin in the Rocky Mountains. I keep daydreaming about …

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Why We Underestimate Project & Task Time (and 6 Tips to Fix It)

Reading Time: 3 minutesWe’ve all been there. You have a project that needs to be completed by the end of the day. You block off an hour for a “quick” project. An hour later, you’ve barely started—and the rest of your day is wrecked. You wish you could do a better job of estimating how long projects will …

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Stop Feeling Guilty About Taking Breaks

Reading Time: 3 minutesThe Trap of Toxic Productivity Have you ever felt uneasy sitting on the couch doing nothing? You’re not alone. Many of us have absorbed the idea that every moment must be productive. A healthy focus on productivity can help us prioritize what matters most in our lives. However, an unhealthy or excessive focus on productivity …

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Why Don’t My Linked Notes Give Me Amazing Insights?

Reading Time: 4 minutesEnthusiastic promoters claimed that linking thoughts together in note-taking apps like Obsidian would spark a revolution in human thinking. Instead, they’ve mostly left us with bigger, fancier digital filing cabinets. The Hype: A Promised Revolution in Thinking When bidirectional linking note apps like Obsidian and Roam Research were released, some writers and podcasters trumpeted a …

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The Life-Changing Power of Someone Believing in You

Reading Time: 3 minutesWe Don’t See Ourselves Clearly It’s not unusual for us to hold limiting beliefs about ourselves and underestimate our abilities. We often fail to see ourselves objectively, and we tend to overlook the skills and characteristics we possess. We don’t think what we do is special because it’s just what we do. However, other people …

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Your Memory Is Lying to You (and So Is Everyone Else’s)

Reading Time: 2 minutesThe Illusion of Certainty Have you ever argued with someone about what really happened—only to discover you both remembered the same event differently? We assume that we know past events because we lived them. However, our memories might not be as accurate as we think. Author Derek Sivers reminds us that what we call the …

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AI Can Mimic Writing—But It Can’t Replace Human Writing

Reading Time: 4 minutesI don’t read books and blog posts to connect with algorithms. I read to connect with people. Writing Is More Than Words on a Page In her recent book, The Curious Reader’s Field Guide to Nonfiction, writing expert Anne Janzer points out that very often readers feel a personal connection with their favorite authors. They …

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A New “Update” Is Posted for August

Reading Time: < 1 minuteIf you’re interested in what I’ve been reading and doing lately, take a look at my newly updated Updates page. Subscribe Subscribe to get our latest content by email. We don’t share your information. ​ Subscribe We respect your privacy. Unsubscribe at any time. Built with Kit

From Anger to Calm: Practicing Stoicism with ‘Let Them, Let Me’

Reading Time: 3 minutesFocus on What You Control We spend so much energy stressing over things we can’t control—traffic jams, canceled flights, rude comments. The Stoics warned us 2,000 years ago that this is wasted effort. They taught that freedom comes from focusing only on what is within our control. They divided everything in life into two categories: …

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